--- title: How Do I Talk to My Child About Alcohol? description: Talking to your kids about the effects of alcohol abuse can seem daunting but it doesn't have to be with the right resources. image: https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/hubfs/blog/talk-to-children-alcohol.png --- [Skip to content](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/blog/how-do-i-talk-to-my-child-about-alcohol#main-content) [![Aquila logo](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/hs-fs/hubfs/AquilaVA_logo_final.png?width=300&height=99&name=AquilaVA_logo_final.png) ![Aquila logo](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/hs-fs/hubfs/AquilaVA_logo_final.png?width=300&height=99&name=AquilaVA_logo_final.png)](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/) [Call Us](tel:703-215-1808) [Get a Free Consultation](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/consultation) - [About Us](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/about-us) - Who We Serve - [For Patients](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/patients) - [For Families](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/families) - [For Medical Pros](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/doctors) - [Mission](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/about-us/mission) - [Staff](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/about-us/staff) - [Career Opportunities](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/careers) - [FAQs](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/faqs) - [Programs and Treatment](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/programs) - [Intensive Outpatient Therapy](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/intensive-outpatient-program-northern-virginia) - [Outpatient Alcohol Recovery](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/alcohol-addiction-treatment) - [Outpatient Drug Rehab](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/drug-treatment-rehab-northern-virginia) - [Dual Diagnosis Treatment](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/dual-diagnosis-addiction-treatment-northern-va) - [Continuing Care Program](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/continuing-care-program) - [ASAP Referrals & Evaluations](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/recovery-journey/vasap-referrals) - [Insurance](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/substance-use-treatment/insurance) - [Additional Resources](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/recovery-journey) - [Addiction Screening Tool](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/brain-science/screen/) - [Community Support](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/recovery-journey/community-support) - [Residential Treatment Partners](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/recovery-journey/residential-treatment-partners) - [External Resources](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/recovery-journey/information) - Testimonials - [Previous Client Testimonials](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/client-testimonials) - [Medical Professional Testimonials](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/about-us/alcohol-drug-rehab-reviews) - [Blog](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/blog) - [Contact Us](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/contact) 2 min read # How Do I Talk to My Child About Alcohol? By: [Russ Kallina](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/blog/author/russ-kallina) on Mar 30, 2017 [Alcohol](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/blog/topic/alcohol) ![talk-to-children-alcohol.png](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/hubfs/blog/talk-to-children-alcohol.png) Have you had “the talk” with your kids yet? No, not the birds and the bees talk. The other one…about underage drinking. Most parents will tell you that talking to their kids about underage drinking or drug use is a difficult discussion to approach. Yet research continuously shows that parents have the greatest influence on teenage behavior.  ![The SAMHSA has resources to help you talk to your child about the effects of drinking at a young age.](https://www.aquilarecoveryva.com/hs-fs/hubfs/blog/SAMHSA-TALK-banner.jpg?width=680&name=SAMHSA-TALK-banner.jpg "The SAMHSA has resources to help you talk to your child about the effects of drinking at a young age.") [Research](https://pubs.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/arh284/205-212.htm) also shows that the later in life that someone is exposed to alcohol, the less chance they have of developing alcohol use disorder (commonly referred to as alcoholism). The human brain does not stop developing until the mid 20’s. The more maturation that can occur without the damaging effects of alcohol, then the better outcome for that individual. So, there are many researched based reasons to have “the talk” with your kids, and the earlier the better.  “How do I get started? How do I approach my child about this?” are questions that are often asked. To address this issue, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) has created a campaign called "[Talk. They Hear You.](https://www.samhsa.gov/underage-drinking)" which helps parents start talking to their children early about the dangers of alcohol. The campaign includes valuable resources including videos, conversation goals, tip sheets, and an Avoiding Alcohol family agreement form. The campaign also includes an [App](https://www.samhsa.gov/underage-drinking/mobile-application) that will walk you through scenarios and give you guidance on how to respond to various questions that your child will have.  [![Addiction and loved ones](https://no-cache.hubspot.com/cta/default/705269/e23e604a-a6d8-4cfd-bfbe-4cbf84b2c0e1.png)](https://cta-redirect.hubspot.com/cta/redirect/705269/e23e604a-a6d8-4cfd-bfbe-4cbf84b2c0e1) The education and tools are available to you. The only missing element is your motivation. Even with these extensive resources, you might still feel uncomfortable speaking with your child about alcohol. 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